Okay bear with me please I've known my boyfriend/ baby daddy, my whole life. We went to church…
Okay bear with me please
I've known my boyfriend/ baby daddy, my whole life. We went to church together but I was still just a kid when he was starting adult life. In high school he dated the same girl for pretty much the whole time, her name was Taylor, and I liked her. After all she wasn't competition she was a nice older girl dating a nice young man I trusted and knew for years. I was told they broke up because she cheated on him, which I'm sure she is part of the truth. I never go through my boyfriends phone really that's not who I am. Only twice in our two years together. Once was back in July cause I was drunk, not that that makes it any less of an invasion of privacy, and I found him talking to her about how weird it is that he is dating me. Tonight I found out he talked to her like two weeks ago again because she was drunk and texted him... And she was discussing how if he hadn't gotten so addicted to alcohol they would still be together...she talked about MY daughter and how she hopes for MY daughters sake that he has his shit together now. She asked why they broke up and he said " not to be a dick but you left me..." And she then went on to tell him what lead her todo so and he kept apologizing saying how much he regrets it. Am I wrong to be hurt? He got so mad at me for talking about my ex and he is allowed to have a life long buddy in her? And if it was the worst mistake he has ever made, then why the fuck is he with me? I don't want to be some consolation prize... I'm 31 weeks pregnant. And u love this man with all my heart... But he told her she was better off without him. What does that say about me? If I weren't pregnant would he even still be with me?
Eternity·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (31 нед.)
Ask him. Straight up ask him. Junk like that is not okay.
Shay Leigh·
В ожидании первенца
@tater4414, and what do I say when he flips out I went through his phone?
Eternity·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (31 нед.)
Going to be honest he shouldn't be freaking out you went through his phone. Like if a guy freaks out about that he is trying to hide something. Just be honest and say you went through his phone and he can do they same to yours and tell him what you found. @shayleighnikole
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I agree with @tater4414 he will only flip out if he has something to hide! Talk to him
Autumn·
you tell him he crossed major boundaries and doesn't get to flip out when his actions are wrong... flipping out equates to guilt... and yes you can be hurt and honestly I wouldn't even stick around for an explanation I'm second to no one period
Rachel·
Stick up for yourself...when they freak out thats straight up guilt. If he freaks then tell him you can't be a part of a relationship where you're the second option.
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
to be completely honest it's probably just bullshit talk that ppl say to their ex's when they don't want to hurt any feelings. like I'm sure he doesn't want to be with her but still likes her as a person. I'm hoping that's all it is. I think it's kind of rude of her to be messaging your man while you're pregnant and talking about that though. Maybe you can talk to her about it?? if she's as mature as you are it's something that can probably be discussed and worked out. But with that said no, I don't think it's wrong for you to feel hurt at all. I feel like it was wrong of them to be having a conversation like that and for him to not tell you right away that she had contacted him.