my 5 yr old is REALLY testing my patience today. he is on destructive mode. making a huge…

my 5 yr old is REALLY testing my patience today. he is on destructive mode. making a huge mess,breaking stuff. crying for everything.... and hubby is outside and gets mad at me cuz hes crying. .. um im not gonna let him get away with stuff just so he doesnt cry especially when hes doing it all on purpose and coming and taunting me telling me what he did and that he isn't going to clean it up. my momma taught me to show respect to my parents, and his parents didn't . he wants me to discipline and them not cry at all.. like hellooo they r kids, they r gonna cry most of the time when they're in trouble!