i feel like a super shitty friend . but my best friend knew this guy for like three months and they dated two weeks and…
i feel like a super shitty friend . but my best friend knew this guy for like three months and they dated two weeks and hooked up then he started ignoring her and saying its because hes stressed out . now shes saying she needs closure as to why they broke up and is drinking and all this . i get shes sad but im getting kinda annoyed . they hardly knew eachother let alone hardly even had a relationship . idk . maybe its pregnancy hormones but i just think shes being too ridiculous about it . she also got mad because i said i really didnt know what to say about it because ive never been attached to someone after only two extremely short weeks and i was sorry . i told her previously before they broke up and were arguing that i wanted to hang out bc i was super stressed about being an actual mommy here in two months and when we hung out it turned into how stressed she was about dude and it really pissed me off 🙄
Natasha·
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She is being a little ridiculous. How long did they know each other?? How long did they date?? Yea, no. She's tripping 🙄
kenzie .·
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thats what i said ! shes been my best friend for yeeeaaaars and i love her to death but i think shes being so beyond ridiculous ! @mactasha i told her shes kinda acting clingy .
Natasha·
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No. I totally understand you. I mean I could understand if it was like moooonths or years but no. She has to let go. It's crazy
kenzie .·
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my fiancé and i were friends 5 years before we dated and together for almost 2 . i told her i didnt know what to say really because i never got that attached at two weeks or even two months even with my fiancé so i didnt know what to say to her . because i dont . ive NEVER gotten that attached or clingy that fast @mactasha and when i told her im so stressed about being a first time mommy here soon , it flipped around to us talking about him and it irked me .
Natasha·
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Yea. She's really trippin but I understand. My best friend was supposedly going through something one time about getting a std. I just had a miscarriage and I'm like idk what to tell you cuz I just lost a baby. She's like she'd rather lose a baby than have a std. Wtf?? I totally ignored her for a while after that. You're going through your own thing way more important than a 2 wk relationship and if she can't understand that then she needs to deal with it on her own and figure herself out.
kenzie .·
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an std is so not even close to losing a baby . i really couldnt imagine either but i mean , you lost a baby ! 😳 i would have been so pissed ! ive been kinda ignoring here and not checking on her and it makes me feel bad but my stress level is high and i cant even deal rn @mactasha .
Natasha·
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Exactly. That's the point. You're too stressed to deal with it. You just have to weigh the negatives and positives. You can't stress you or your baby out for some little shit. She's either gonna have to get over it (it's really not that big deal...lol 2 weeks??) or get over it. Those are her only options.
kenzie .·
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i agree 100 % @mactasha !