My friend told me not to feel less of a mother because I had a c-section. But it bothers me so much. I feel cripple and…
My friend told me not to feel less of a mother because I had a c-section. But it bothers me so much. I feel cripple and I know my son needs me. I literally asked my fiancé to help me bathe tomorrow because I don't think I did it right. I'm so happy to be a mother but I'm sad because I'm not as strong.
Brea·
You are stronger than you think. C-section or vaginal, one or the other doesn't qualify you as more or less of a mother. You need to recover. If you need help to wipe your own butt, get that help. Still doesn't make you less of a mother. To put it bluntly, you were sliced open through layers of skin, fat, and muscle. Recovery will take some time. Having a baby is no easy feat, but us women do it daily. Don't think less of yourself. Just take it easy and heal. 💜💜💜
Aaliyah·
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Thank you. I'm trying my best to take it easy. I'm so grateful for my support system. I'm just not use to being like this. @breloya
Brea·
Giving birth is draining, but it gets better with time. The last thing you want is to be doing too much and get an infection in your incision. Good luck and congrats on the little.