my so and sister joke around all the time about how they are gonna get together and stuff like that.…
my so and sister joke around all the time about how they are gonna get together and stuff like that. and we are visiting her today, and we were talking about how he had a seizure last night and my sister goes "it's a good thing we aren't dating cause I'd fuck you into a seziure". they constantly make jokes like this every time we hang out together. and then if I get all butthurt about it they are always like take a joke and shit. and it just bothers me. remind you my sister is engaged, and has a baby. and would never say this infront of her fiance. don't I have a right to be bothered by it? or should I just laugh along with them?😔😔😔
Starsnstripes·
I'd stop it dead in its tracks, sister or no sister.
Brittney Massallo·
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I would NOT laugh at that.. that's completely disrespectful and crossing the line. my sister and SO joke around but it's about how they are gonna fight eachother and picking on each other... definitely not talking about fucking each other. not onay
Rebecca·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Wtf? I would be livid, regardless of the situation. That is disgusting what she is saying to your bf and the fact that he plays along with it, I would be mad if I were you too. That's not something to joke about, especially when it's your sister. You should set some boundaries real quick
Brittani·
wow I would be pissed. They would not be seeing or talking to eachother ever if that was me. @6215teenmom
mimi·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yeah that's disrespectful. Hell no if she won't say it in front of her man why should she not respect how u feel about the jokes hell nah and your man needs to respect how u feel period and should not be joking like that with your sister at all.!
rachael·
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you have every right on be mad I would be pissed. I would no longer be on speaking terms with my sister and neither would he.
natalie86·
Мама дочки (6 лет)
aw hell nawl! that's disrespectful! Then she keep saying that shit! She throwing hints ! soon or later she gone try him cause the way he acting letting her think if she try it he gone go!
Nesha·
Мама троих детей
hell yea that's so inappropriate fir them I would slap my sister, she needs to act like an engaged woman and your bf needs to have some respect for your feelings
Melissa·
Мама сына-младенца
just remember, every joke someone makes has at LEAST a seed of truth in it. if she didn't feel that way at all, it would never come to her mind to say it. and same with your SO, he should really be respectful enough to you to tell her that is not something ok to talk about, even as a joke. they are clearly at least a little bit attracted to each other, so you really need to set boundaries and nip it in the bud. if she didn't feel it was at least a little bit true, she would be comfortable saying it in front of anyone, so that is a big red flag. I would just sit down and talk to your SO about how it makes you feel, and that even if it's a joke, it makes you uncomfortable and that should be reason enough for him not to do it.
Ashley·
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I wish my sister or my hubs come out their face sideways like that! the would both get the business!! No thats not a laughing matter. Tell them to say it in front of her man and see whats said!
Monica·
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I wish the hell my sister(s) would speak out of line like that, apparently she wants him in a sexual way if she's saying it & for him to joke back, yeah they won't be breathing if it were me. Girl you better check them both & quick.
Kaitlyn·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
@arlogreyson, @brittneylove @expectingz @followoursurrogacy @maybabyboy @mimi602 @miracle-baby @momma2bee @mrshamilton830 @natalie86 @rachayrn I told him how I felt and he said I need to get over myself and that if I joked like that with my bil he wouldn't care because it's downgrading
Melissa·
Мама сына-младенца
girl, he is disregarding your feelings and that's not ok. it's not that it just annoys you, it really makes you uncomfortable and that always needs to be taken seriously by your SO. it's not like you're making up these feelings, and he needs to respect your feelings at all times.
Ashley·
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Naw boo, he is tryna tell you that your sis is an upgrade from you so you should feel privileged he's not downgrading from you, smh. I would be done, and say duces to both and alert my bil of the shenanigans going on. That comment right there makes me think they really did something, they all okay with saying it right in front of you like naw, miss me with that! you want each other have at it, but imma put ppl up on the games yall playin real quick!!✌
Brittani·
I would not be dealing with that crap. He is being very inappropriate & inconsiderate of you and your feelings. From the way it sounds if given the chance him& your sister would act on their "jokes" behind your back. I hope that never happens but sounds like you can't trust either of them. Maybe he will come to his senses and respect you. I'd talk to your sister too. Not cool at all. Best of luck to you girl. @6215teenmom
Rebecca·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@6215teenmom, Gosh, I can't imagine anything like that happening. I'm sorry he's too childish to realize how it hurts you and how disrespectful it is. Regardless of what he says, it's disrespectful and you should never accept either one of them talking to each other like that. Make sure you make your point girl, or he is going to be crossing a lot more boundaries that he will expect you to just accept
Brittney Massallo·
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hell no.his reaction definitely makes it seem way more than joking as @expectingz said.. I'd be done with that in a heart beat
Starsnstripes·
I agree with @natalie86
Starsnstripes·
@6215teenmom, I vote private, serious talk with your brother in law. Then your sister won't play cute anymore (I hope)
natalie86·
Мама дочки (6 лет)
this some Jerry Springer shit! I'll cut up!