I need to vent!!! 😣😤
So today while eating out with my husband this guy came in with his daughter. The guy was around his early 20s, and the daughter was about 3 or 4. I understand toddlers are always hyper, and trying to move jump or whatever. They are toddlers they don't understand things yet. So the father as soon as he was walking in his yelling at his kid stuff like "you're so fucking retarted" "stop fucking running" "that's why no one wants to take care of you" etc. Infront of everyone I was really affected by the way he treated the little girl now that I am a mom I see things in different ways, and that just got to me. I just think if you are not ready to have a kid or you don't want you that was birth control, condoms, and all that stuff is for... The little girl was just a toddle that's how they are!!! That's why kids grow up thinking they have no future because the parents say negative things that will affect them in there future. They learn all those mean words and think its okay. We need to teach our kids that words are harmful too. We need to be kind and even if they get us annoy relax and say things calmly not be aggressive. That's how kids think it's okay, we always judge the new generations but think about it we are raising a new generation, so why don't we do it better and make some of this hate go away!! ....
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need suggestions....
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