Trigger. Our precious boy Last night, December 8th, 2015, at 9:58pm, our sweet precious baby boy was born sleeping. We spent 5 wonderful hours with him: holding him, talking to him, singing to him, mourning him, praying for him, and weeping over him.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My son keeps rolling over and sleeping on his stomach when he sleeps, should I turn him on his back or let him sleep how he wants?
So my ex went to court and filed for visitation rights. I was served last week. I am not comfortable with our daughter being around him alone nor his mother which he lives with. I have proof of him asking me to take his drug test for his job for him in text messages and him texting me he was too high to drive and get our daughter milk. Is that enough to show the judge? As far as his mother she watches his son quite often and told us she gives him nighttime medicine if she has problems getting him to go to sleep at night. (Claims she did it with my ex when he was little too) And she FaceTimed us once mid day while taking his son back to his mother, she gave him night time medicine bc she didn’t want him talking the whole ride and wanted him to sleep. He was so out of it. It just scares me to leave her alone with them.
In need of advice... Leon will only sleep in my arms or on my chest and cries unconsoleably when I try to move him. Lately, he has been allowing me to lay him on our bed, directly next to me, to sleep. Occasionally, I can get him to sleep in his swing for a few hours. He refuses, however, to be in his bouncer or bassinet for any longer than 15 minutes at a time. I have tried swaddling him, laying him on his side, using a pacifier, playing music, singing to him, turning on vibrations, keeping a nightlight on, placing my hand on him, patting his backside, and running a warm mist humidifier but nothing seems to soothe him. I am trying to find a way to break him of this because I know it isn't safe and I've gotten very little sleep over the last 5 weeks, since he was born. Any advice would be welcomed and appreciated! Thank you in advance!
