Can you decide for yourself to have a c- section or its up to the doctor?!

you can ask for one at 39

yes, you can have an elective c-section,

You can but I don't recommend it unless there's a medical reason or your doctor tells you that you need one. I got an emergency one and I'm 2 months pp and I still get pains and have to limit myself on lifting things and exercising. it also takes a full 3 years to full heal from the inside and out and even then you can still tear after

I'm nervous and scared to have him natural I'm not good with pain whatsoever and I see people that's been through labor for like 10+ hours and I can't be in pain that long 😩😩😩😩😳😳😳

@daedaee93, everyone is different I will have my 4th c-section in August and never had any problems, I wanted to do vaginal it just wasn't an option for me. Talk to your doctor about your options of pain relief when delivering vaginally, there have been so many changes and the epidural isn't the only pain relief they have. Weigh your options a c-section is a huge decision to make before exhausting all other options.

guaranteed you'll be in more pain having a c section. that's a scar, that's healing and I think painful. vaginally yes hurts but I'd hope to never have to have a c section

mm ichelle2220, I had kidney surgery so I have a long scar and I know it took time for it too heal so I'm use too it

@michelle2220,

But I'll just talk to my doctor too see what's my best option thank you all