question .. - I have relatives who had absolutely nothing to do with me or my family until they…

Nope It's your baby and your choice, nobody knows better than you who should be in babys life

Hope that's how my dads family is and they have yet to see my son and he's going on three months

Nope*

I'm sure that happens to everyone. I know it did for me. Forgive and forget. The worst thing they can do is give you gifts for the baby. I know when my cousin got pregnant we never really talked that much but when the baby came I was back into her life. Sometimes family strays away because they're living life and doing their own thing. But unless they're doing harm to you and your baby then I see nothing wrong with it.

I have alot to think about bc some of my family has caused alot of turmoil to me and my husband, and it's hard today no sometimes. I'm just hoping that I can stand my ground.