So I may just be petty.. But the man who got me pregnant has another son right ? Well he isn't with…

@newmommy_2016, I personally believe in men taking care of their kids , it takes a boy to get some one pregnant but a man to step up and take care of his responsibility hats off to you for being the mom and dad , if he doesn't won't to help you have you thought about child support? just my opinion

for some men,, they wait until the baby is born to be on their life,,, better to be alone than to have someone you can't count on ,

@michelle685, thank you ❤️ yes I will be taking him for child support. I've tried and tried to get him to be in baby's life.. But you can only do so much ya know ? So I'm done.

typo in their life

@nygirl3rdbabymiami, that's exactly what I was thinking. I wouldn't want him in and out of his life.

@newmommy_2016, exactly you did your part so do what you have to do about you and your child

I just have a feeling his ass will pull some shit and end up at the hospital. And the cops will be escorting him out. Ill probably get shit from people for that, but he hasn't talked to me in almost 9 months. And when he does he tries to get in my pants or ask for a dirty picture. Like come on dude... You're 22. Act like it. @michelle685

@newmommy_2016, right I have a saying act your age and not your shoe size .

That's messed up. Good for you though I can tell you are a strong independent women

hun that's got to be hard to go through. I say if you want your baby keep it. if he doesn't want anything to do with it, than let him miss out. but be prepared to deal with him for 18 yrs

I'm LITERALLY in the same situation girl. It's hard not to be offended but I try my best not to think about it

Like it's crazy how similar our situations are

Yea not looking forward to that. His family is great, but him... No. @geekymomma13 @jadah247 that's so crazy ! That's what I do to. Just seeing him post all about him, get a tattoo for him, like hellllooo you got another one. But then I think that I wouldn't want him in and out of his life.. So he's better off without knowing him :)

@newmommy_2016, damn right keep his sperm Donner out of his life, and eventually start a family with a man worth a dqmn. good luck! stay strong!

@geekymomma13, I'll find that special man someday, but until then the only men in my life are my dog and my son. ❤️❤️ thank you !!

@newmommy_2016, that is so messed up honestly. I'm sorry we have to go through this haha and they really have the nerve to hit you up for sex but you can't even ask how I'm doing. Like seriously? My sperm donor is the same age as yours. I literally ask him for nothing. I just can't fathom how someone could be so immature and irresponsible. The switch up is really crazy when they find out you're pregnant.

@newmommy_2016, like I'm sorry you already have a baby but that was never my fault

@newmommy_2016, sorry lol you're like the first person I'm venting to because you actually understand

@jadah247, girl you're fine. Vent away. That's what this website is for (: yea he's pretty dumb.. But never knew he was like this till I found out I was prego then booom! Total different person. And found out so many disturbing things about him from his mom that he never told me. She is awesome though. Love her ❤️ we got this girl

@newmommy_2016, yes luckily I have great support from my loved ones 😌😌 it's good that you're at least involved with his family. Good luck with everything 💙💛 feel free to message me anytime !