Ladies how did you get through pap smears and doctors checking your cervix?? Im trying to deal but…
Ladies how did you get through pap smears and doctors checking your cervix?? Im trying to deal but it's so painful and uncomfortable. I want to have my son naturally but I'm just too disturbed by the thought of it, let alone the action!
missing476user·
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It's never painful for me unless I'm too tense.
Alyssa Malloy·
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Yeah I find that if I'm to nervous or tense about it, it hurts way more, I just try my hardest not to tense up and then it's not that bad.
Rachel·
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You defiantly have to relax! The more tense you are the worse it feels!! It's never hurt me before and my doctor has mentioned several times how relaxed I am!
Jes·
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@m173, @alyssabrittany @kasey. @rlsteidinger15 I'm trying so hard not to tense up. The OB got frustrated and said "how did you make this baby? were you forced?" and then asked if I had ever been molested! lmao. He was so rude and I was definitely not comfortable at all.
missing476user·
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@jesjeslovesyou, I would ask for a new doctor. That is absolutely horrible bedside manner.
Rachel·
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@he's jeslovesyou, agreed! That's horrible on your doctors end! I don't know if this makes a difference or not but my doctor is female & so are all her nurses! Nothing against male doctors, but when it comes to that area for me I am just way more comfortable with a female. And I haven't always been this comfortable, when I first got married I went to the doctor thinking something was wrong with me because sex hurt me so bad and was slightly embarrassed to find out I was just too tense during sex! At that point I started reminding myself to relax when it came to sex & check-Ups and now it just comes naturally! You can do it!