So I know it's stupid but, I'm really upset. My husband is going with his daughter, who we have for…

if you were going then it wouldn't be so weird... but if I went with my baby daddy just him tasha an i my hubby would not like that! ! plus I wouldn't go alone lol

I would say you need to go with, its wierd with them going alone. The reality is you are his new family, and he has to learn to integrate you into that even with going to the zoo

@2016momof2, Right? if I was going it wouldn't be so weird but, I'm working. I just feel like I'm going to be left. I knew him before he had his daughter and so I know many times he said he'd never go back to her and he did numerous times so what makes it different now ya know?

my pregnant ass would of called in and waddled all way thru the zoo with them lol.

@rachel8792, I would but, I'm working today.

I know it hurts, but it is also good for the little girl to see both parents coparenting in a loving way. You should go with them. This shows the baby mama and the little girl that you too are also invested in nurturing a positive coparenting relationship. You should always be included since you and him are married.

@1sttimemummy,

@1sttimemummy, you should call out

@_mommyoftwinsplusone, @2016momof2 I wish I could go but, saving for baby I need all the hours I can get and I'm off tomorrow and they both know that :(

@rachel8792, I was already at work when they planned this and I only work a few hrs. I feel they should've waited till I was off but, nope that doesn't work with the other mom.

Well let them know how you feel. Out of courtesy for your they should reschedule on a day you are off. Your husband should not want to be around any woman that he has had past relations with unless you are around. You should be his first priority. Many times men don't understand this because they just don't know. You are a major part of this coparenting thing working out and you must be included!

^^ agreed

@_mommyoftwinsplusone, He doesn't see it that way even though I've told him numerous times. :( Maybe it's better if he does just leave.... 😢

@1sttimemummy, Don't be defeated! Just keep lifting this situation up in prayer. It truly does change things.🙏🏾 Sometimes we as women don't get treated the way we want/ deserve to be treated because we don't require it. Start requiring more and you'll start getting more. You know your worth. Your are priceless; make him see that! 😀

@_mommyoftwinsplusone, these hormones are making it really hard. I honestly wish I could just disappear...

@1sttimemummy, Then do that! Take a few days and disappear. We all need our alone time to regroup. Go stay with a girlfriend or parent. When I feel like I am not being appreciated by my husband I take me a three day vacation and disappear. By day three he's begging for me to come back. It doesn't have to be something expensive.

@_mommyoftwinsplusone, I don't have any family or friends here :( and no money for a hotel or anything....I'm really down. Maybe go camping I guess