Please don't bash me or make rude comments:
But how awful would it be if I made my ex (who cheated on my when we first found out we were expecting our second and ignored our first up until about a month ago) sit in the waiting room as I am in having my c section?
Are you kidding? That's nothing girl! It's the least you can do to teach him a lesson IMO. Way worse can be done so don't even feel bad if you decide that. You want someone there who you feel can support you and take care of you and if he hasn't proved himself then it's no surprise if he wasn't able to jump on the band wagon. Don't stress it, it's your decision and no one else's. I hope everything goes well and you have a happy and healthy delivery ☺️
It's your decision. Do what you feel is right and will be more comfortable for you.