i really hate i can't talk to my mom when it comes to life struggles. I'm still young and learning and could really use…

i really hate i can't talk to my mom when it comes to life struggles. I'm still young and learning and could really use some advise and all i get from her is "stressing is not going to solve anything" it saddens me when i think about the effort she puts forth in our relationship but can be cool with my sis who constantly disrespects her.