@cubanese, there is definitely wayyyyy more to it than people realize.

@cubanese, I tried to swing on a pole once and I'm a gym rat/bodybuilder...shit is way harder than it looks! Gotta hand it to the women who do it..I've thought about taking classes I think it would be fun

I never minded going with my husband and I don't mind him going. He stays true to me and I don't care if he goes out. He doesn't really go to strip clubs but very rarely his buddies decide they want to go because those are usually the only places open later than bars. It doesn't bother me as long as he isn't blowing our money on strippers.

Now my husband doesn't care to do the strip club, we were just having a conversation and I got stuck when he said you OK with another woman getting me hard.

I want to do pole dancing when I drop baby I really want to lose weight & tone up plus my SO would love it lol @cubanese

@cubanese, that's what I've heard. And the core strength it gives and requires is amazing!!

@santanna86, I'm with you. Didn't care as much before I was married but now I would be bothered by it. It's not his thing though. @cubanese I've always wanted to give that a try. Might look into for this time next year ☺️

Before I was married I really didn't mind whether I went with him or not...but now that I am married I think I would have a problem because my man is easily aroused by me so I don't think I would be able to handle knowing another woman arousing my man.

nope not for me or him. i got invited like a yr ago. n he said hell 2 da naw. so not for him either lol my husband simply put it like we Re married we dont need to be inndat kind of situation. ur all i need n im all u need. im like ok u ryt

depends on whether or not your man is prone to wandering... My husband doesn't even like going out anymore... if he had to go to one (the only time he would go now is for a bachelor party situation) he would go for the cheap drinks specials. I don't really care about looking, touching I do mind.. I have been to a male strip joint married... everyone knows that's kinda different though.

Hell no. Not for him or for me.

I want to go to a strip club lol so I am fine going with him . alone... im not so sure if I would be comfortable...