So upset tonight. My other half is a big fucking cunt!! He seriously breaks my heart all the time…

@kim.m., I genuinely feel for you right now!!! I went through this with one of my ex partners, he would turn his phone off all weekend and not speak to me, would go on the piss up and start bad mouthin me to all his wee pals, the lot! Try not to think the worst and stress yourself out! When he comes home try speaking to him and telling him exactly how you feel and that you need his support right now more than ever! I'm sure he's not cheating, he's just a typical lad and will do this every now and then, but he should let you know, after all your the mother of his children and carrying another! If he's staying out tonight, lock the door, put your feet up and try and get a good rest. You deserve it, I would be on the abusive phone calls and messaging his pals going raj by now haha. He should be more considerate of your feelings, just a message away Hun! X

aw its no good telling him how much its hurting me, when I do he thinks I'm just nagging at him...I've sent him loads of phsyco text messages like🙈 but I don't have a clue what pals he's with which is making it worse, apparently he told his mum his pals, a couple, have moved into a new house and he's going down there to party and he's no coming home, I really hope I'm just being hormonal and paranoid about thinking he's cheating. I've locked the door but there's no way I'll sleep, this feeling is the worst😢 thanks though hun, that means a lot. xxx

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Id tell him exactly how hes making you feel and dont worry about him thinking your nagging , make sure he listens to you hun be very straight with him and dont let him walk over you and fob you off :) im just message away if you need a chat @kim.m. xx

Totally ignore him it's gets to them more than nagging lol xxx

he most prob knows its a fear of yours to be left with kids and be a single mum so will play on that ( upto 6 months ago i was in same boat ) but show u dont care about that part and be out of house when he gets back and stay out. stay out overnight at ur nums with kids if you can? let him know how it feels. or say uve a babysitter n uve gone out. play him at his own game. hope ur ok xxx @kim.m.

@tg123456789 I haven't got anybody I can go to hun, my mum passed away 4 years ago and the rest of my family don't really talk to each other, the aunts that do keep in touch and my dad live really far away..I wish I could go out and stay out like him but I can't..hes still not home, the last time he stayed out getting drunk he was home at 7am..he's not even text me or phoned me yet. @tasha349 hes really hurt me hun so it will be easy to ignore him, so I think that's what I'll do. I'm sick 'nagging' him or telling him how I feel so I'm gonna give him the silent treatment. @danielleallen110 he's still not home and not bothered to get in touch, I'm so upset with him. thanks though girls. it feels good to let this all out...I went to bed with a pounding sore head cause of stress and I've woke up with one xxx

silent treatment works best hun. my OH Although we haven't been together long when he would start doing stupid stuff or saying hurtful things I used to scream in his face. it's hard as being pregnant there's not alot to do and they no that. just act super sad. just the other night we had a row I just sat there silently crying and he walked out. not long after he came in hugged me said he hates seeing me so upset etc. if you start going quiet they will start thinking they are losing you. That's my theory anyway. keep ya head held high anyway. Sorry if this makes no sense. here if you need a moan xx

@kim.m., my bf told me he didn't want to be with me any more as a joke to wind me up I didn't speak to him and I didn't say a word round him he was so upset in end cos he realise how much he'd hurt me without me saying anything at all xxx