Can anybody relate? I don't just take this, I say something back but I hate when people speak…

Can anybody relate? I don't just take this, I say something back but I hate when people speak negative things over your child(ren) or unborn baby. There's a difference between me doing it and someone else doing it related or not! Not that I do speak negative things over my son and unborn and if I have I don't mean it cause babies/kids still have to grow and learn. If I say my son is bad I don't mean breaking stuff, hitting, spitting etc without being corrected. I mean when he gets sleepy he becomes a handful he gets touchy or cries over little stuff cause he's tired. One lady told me since my firstborn is quiet and good (he always has been) my second is gonna be a screamer 😒 or someone else said my firstborn is gonna cause trouble cause he's clingy and he'll be jealous of the newborn. I don't know what it'll be like with a 2 year old and a newborn every experience is different but I'm not worried or being negative, people kill me sometimes! 😵🔫💀