my childs father and i are going through hell , we live an hour away from eachother .. its been…
my childs father and i are going through hell , we live an hour away from eachother .. its been three month and he cannot fix his car or find a job where he's at , im 3months(12weeks) & im getting impatient I haven't seen him in almost 2 months .. im hurting cause i haven't seen him and im going to my first appointment monday , should i give up on his ass or hold on ... the loves there between us , im to insecure whether i leave him or not im gon be hurt ... comment your opinion ... i need a female friend to be here or talk too something ..
Petra·
Мама двоих (11 лет, 14 лет)
That depends if you want to give up, because if he's not gonna get a job, or provide for your baby. then maybe.
Bianca·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
I would say if you think he is really trying then hold on and try to do what you can to help him find a job or resources. But if you feel he is procrastinating then don't waste your time. Honestly, a couple hours away is maybe $20 greyhound bus ride away.
Petra·
Мама двоих (11 лет, 14 лет)
Yes, if he can find a job or you can help him find help, and keep that job, and he's willing to help you out. then it's worth him sticking by his side. love has a little bit to with it, but not everything.
He has to prove it in other ways by the job, and seeing his family as well.
D.·
I'm with them ^^^ As long as he's trying and making an effort help him
Autumn·
if he's good to you hang on... gotta love them when they're down to fully love and appreciate them when they're up
K!mMy 🌺·
Мама дочки-младенца
I say hold on things will get better. It's hard to find real love these days