We never had a pillow lol. I think every baby is different and you have to do what feels right and works best for you.

Right way

@craftycroft,

okay is it bad she in the bassinet most of the time the seat we have is hard on her neck and I don't have a special pillow to support her neck

We sat our daughter up against us but I didn't reallt use a boppy pillow till she was a few months old. I would go with your instincts. We didn't really follow anything specific we just did what felt right.

What about sitting her up in a boppy pillow @craftycroft

yep! And stay with her

so I do it when she's awake right @craftycroft

ASAP

NICU nurses told us to do it right away and we did. She's had great head control for a while and I think part of it was starting so soon.