Now that I've actually experienced pregnancy (for the most part) I will never tell a woman all these…
Now that I've actually experienced pregnancy (for the most part) I will never tell a woman all these things to expect. Everyone and every pregnancy is different, so to tell someone all these things they're going to experience, when it's not a given is kind of messed up. I see so many panaroid women who are scared of this or worried because this hasn't happened or that hasn't happened.. that they don't even enjoy their pregnancy. I know we experience painful and uncomfortable things, some worse than others, but I honestly feel no need to complain because I wanted this and this baby means everything to me. That's just me. I'm not pushing people down who complain that's fine, I just don't see the point. Pregnancy is beautiful and if you don't agree, that's okay.
Amanda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (24 нед.)
I agree. And sometimes being apart of a app like this as a first time mom will have you paranoid about a lot cause of everything you see being said. I complain I can't deny that but being my second run I'm a lot more certain about things and more calm then I was my first pregnancy
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (23 нед.)
I guess everyone is different, I can only speak from my experience you know? I'm not knocking anyone, but I'm a first trine mom and I ask questions, but I also do my own research and ask my doctor a lot of questions. I have anxiety so I had to prepare myself for this because I didn't want to stress during this pregnancy. It hasn't been easily, but I believe having a positive mindset helps so much. @amaperalta03
Amanda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (24 нед.)
And that's wonderful that your like that. I wish I was like that my first time. I was such a worry wart. But this time around I'm all about positive vibes
Paige·
В ожидании первенца
@sarinunez, that's so funny because I have anxiety and I took the opposite approach because I knew if I looked up too much or read too much and it didn't go like planned I'd be worried sick 😓 lol I even told my boyfriend and he's like yeah you should probably stay off the Internet. That being said, I feel like I never know what to even ask at the doctor when she puts me on the spot 😰 I wish I was prepared like you but there's so much info and it's all different from different people.
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (23 нед.)
I don't Google everything but I did want to know about breastfeeding, different parenting styles, delaying vaccinations, etc. It worries me less when I'm informed. Hibestkt whatever happens, good or bad, is really out of our control for the most part so I just let that sink in. All we can do is take care of ourselves. @crazytoast