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Brianne
Brianne
Мама дочки (2 года)

I hate the situation I'm in. Basically in every sense. I'm having to coparent with a man who…

I hate the situation I'm in. Basically in every sense. I'm having to coparent with a man who destroyed my heart, who lives 400+ miles away. And I'm trying to work things out with my daughters father due to how horribly I handled certain other situations. I live with people who not only 100% support my abuser, don't believe he's guilty of ANYTHING, and yell at me when I call him a pedophile, but I live in a house that said abuser is always welcome with open arms and warm/eager invites. Not to mention how I can't find a job I can physically handle to pay my bills every month and I'm having to ask people for help. ):

I need SOMETHING to go right.

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uhohitskyra

Kyra Godbey Glunt

Мама двоих (младенец)

Prayers and a listening ear If you need to vent.

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brianne

Brianne

Мама дочки (2 года)

@uhohitskyra, thank you

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ileanasmami0625

Christina

I'm not in the same boat as you..but I'm having to coparent with someone who first told me he was looking for an engagement ring so we can get married..to leaving me for a girl he met online two weeks later. all while I was 7 months pregnant. woman are stronger than men and we are able to deal with a lot. I believe through God everything will fall in place. there are times God has to drag us through storms, just so we can see the beautiful rainbow of life. keep your head up. you can always talk to me!

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brianne

Brianne

Мама дочки (2 года)

@ileanasmami06, thank you. He's madly in love with me and I know he'd be willing to do whatever to have me back. And I hate to say it like this, but I could snap my finger and he'd come running. But I have severe depression, I'm bipolar, I have severe anxiety, and panic disorder. All on top of being pregnant. So I'm a bit of a psycho, not gonna deny I've been way out of hand. But nothing horribly serious. He threatened to take custody of the kid from me, twice. Using my depression as a reason I'm an unfit mother. And told me I should stop using my mental illness as an excuse to be a cunt. (Sorry for language). But tbh that's just my personality. I'm a blunt person and when I get mad and upset I don't care (to an extent) who I hurt or what I say. I don't like how he handled the situation and how he blames me for so much when it's so very much out of my control. ): if he lived closer I'd be willing to give it a shot. But if I gave it a shot now, I would be throwing away any independence and moving in with him. So who's to say 5 years from now I get pregnant again and it happens all over again? Or something even worse happens or is said? Or if he kicks me out? 400 miles away from any family.... I just can't take that chance.

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ileanasmami0625

Christina

awww...I'm here for you if you need someone to talk to on a daily basis... Im extremely depressed also and have anxiety attacks. when i get mad i also go crazy and say w.e comes to mind not caring about anyones feelings which is really bad..this pregnancy was not easy at all for me.. I got cheated on the entire time.. but still wanted to make the relationship work.. until he just left me and moved out...talk about embarrassing..I've been crying everyday this pregnancy.. and I know it's just going to get harder but I'm trying to continue praying ..waiting for God to just make everything fit in it's place perfectly. you got this girl.. you seem like a wonderful mother, it's just men that make u feel like your going crazy.

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brianne

Brianne

Мама дочки (2 года)

@ileanasmami06, I appreciate it. ❤️ I'm here if you need someone too. If it wasn't for the need to procreate, men would be completely useless. Lol.

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