Ok I need to vent lol sorry
Ok I need to vent lol sorry
I was talking to my mom today while we were at the mall and I told her how back during Easter time my grandma asked when I was baptizing my baby. I told her we aren't baptizing her. We are letting her make choices for herself so we are not going to force her into a religion. My grandma replies with "well you better hope nothing will happen to her before she gets baptized". Why? Are you saying my baby would go to hell???? Anyways, I told my mom about how it pissed me the fuck off. My mom then tells me that my grandmas been talking shit because I didn't let her hold my baby one time when we were out at dinner. First of all, I was talking to my fiancé with my back turned to my grandma and while I'm talking to him I hear her saying "give her to me. I can hold her". I was in a conversation so I was not going to turn around and talk to her and be rude. Second of all, I was telling my fiancé to switch spots with me so I could nurse my baby with more room at the end of the table. Apparently I'm a bitch for feeding my hungry baby instead of letting my grandma hold her. She's told my whole family I wouldn't let her hold her. That's not the case. She's held her before. I just needed to feed my fucking kid.
She also was saying to my mom how it's messed up my mom hasn't been able to baby sit my baby yet. And she basically told my mom to force her way into my house and watch my baby. Number 1: my mom has MRSA and herpes and lives in a hoarding house(meaning she's a hoarder) with 6 animals who poop and pee everywhere. She's gotten MRSA 4 times so sorry if I don't want my baby getting fucking MRSA!!! And number 2: my baby will scream and cry if someone else holds her or if I leave the room. She is not ready to be watched without me yet. Number 3: I breastfeed and I can never pump more than 1/2 an ounce a session. So any milk I can pump is strictly for emergencies.
Sorry for the long rant. Tired of my grandma talking shit about me when I'm trying to take care of my daughter.
Jasmine Siqueiros·
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Bleh some grandmas are really old fashioned lol. They think that just because they're experienced with life they get to act like they are priority. My grandma demands to be in the hospital room when I give birth since I'm having her first great grandchild. I'm like no. If I'm not even letting my mom in do you really think I'm going to let you be there. Especially now that she's social media savvy lol. Nooo I'm not letting you put nothing on Facebook 😂 maybe you should try talking to your grandma and working things out. Clear the air you know?
missing369user·
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@bishop0301, oh hell no lol I wouldn't want my grandma in there either. I just found out so Imma try but this is just her personality. She's done crap like this with every person in the family and it never ends. Ugh so annoying.
Sandra Garcia·
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this is one thing i dont get.. i was having this talk with my brother in law about babies getting baptized the whole point of getting baptized is to clean yourself of all sins right ? but why do it to a baby if they havent sin yet they are kids ...i think you are doing a good job thats the same thing ima do if my baby wants to get baptized thats gonna be her choice not mine
missing369user·
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@sandee_gianna805, exactly! Babies don't have sin. I was raised Catholic and forced into catholic school K-8 and an all girls catholic high school. I personally am not religious anymore. But if my daughter wants to be, good for her. If not, good for her. I just hate forcing it at such a young age. Makes it seem like a cult
Sandra Garcia·
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@mamesey, i was the same way my dad was a jehovas witness and i hated it so much cause he forced us to be in it i remember i was 6 years old he would wake us up at 6 in the morning to go knocking door on door he would be so strict when it came to that but now im a christian and i decided to take my child to church but once she tells me she doesnt like it im not gonna force her into it .
missing369user·
Мама дочки-младенца
@sandee_gianna805, wow I can't imagine doing that all the time so young :( good for you girl! My mom forced me to go until I was 17 and I always told her I didn't want to. Your child's lucky you understand 😊