My boyfriend doesn't seem to care about anything I say. He has people at my house every night when I…

My boyfriend doesn't seem to care about anything I say. He has people at my house every night when I get home from work.. He likes to control everything but without me he wouldn't hardly have anything. I make more money so I end up paying the majority of the bills then he asks me for money when he runs out. He's 21 with no lisence or car. It doesn't seem like he has any drive to do anything. I want more but he's stuck in his ways. I really don't wanna leave but don't know what else to do.. Any advice?