I haven't put together my babies nursery.... I think because I love love love my 1st son and I know…

He is your favorite because you haven't had your second son yet.. You will love them both equally but in different ways each will hold their own special kind of love in your heart

@rhonda.otero, thank u. everyone tells me that but I think my 1st will always be my favorite..... that sounds bad but true..... I love him so much and he is my life and my everything.... I do not know how women have so many kids and love them all the same.... what happens if the baby cries and my oldest is crying for something too.... who do I go to first? I would never ignore my oldest and go to my 2nd one 1st..... oh boy I'm in trouble....

Lol I thought the same thing but I don't have two boys, I had a girl next so it's a different kind of love. Now with two girls my first girl always ask who I love more and who is the prettiest and when I say they are equal I truly mean it but if both are crying I go to the baby because the baby can't do anything for herself. I know some parents truly have favorites. My son is my moms favorite grandchild and she shows it but it hurts my daughters feelings and pisses me off. My brothers all get mad saying she will do anything for my son and not their children but she isn't afraid to let the world know he is her favorite.

@rhonda.otero, my Co worker has grandkids and 1 of her brother the 2nd one is his favorite and the mom her favorite is the 3rd one and the other sister her favorite is the 2nd one..... so yeah..... my oldest is the most caring and loving toddler I know..... I really think I would go to the toddler 1st..... OMG that sounds terrible..... I can have my husband go to the baby and I go to my oldest hehe.... did u have a normal delivery

lol no judgment here and normal hmmm define normal? Lol vaginally? Yes. Naturally? Yes. But normal.. No.. It was pretty rough

@rhonda.otero, yes vaginally lol.... oh I'm sorry.... I hate labor.... I ever experienced it with my 1st and don't want to with my 2nd.... I can just imagine the pain..... omg..... I don't want to go through that....

My first was smooth had the epidural and they told me when to push and it was quick. My second I was in the hospital for about a month because they stopped my labor because she was too early but once I was in active labor the second time I had her in 15 mins and no meds at all... This time around I had complications the whole pregnancy, best rest since 2 months and the labor was 25 hours, I was contracting for months, shots every week, and when I delivered with no meds I was bleeding during the whole 25 hours and the doctors just came out and told me idk why you are losing so much blood.. Super scary

@rhonda.otero, I am glad you and your baby is ok.... I want 2 more kids but husband says no.... so have to close the factory soon :( : (: (:( when I get my section on the 29th :( :( :( :(

I love my kids equally both special in my case though my first one just cause he was my first & my first baby but my second was by a man I truely loved who passed away so he is very special to me also. two different dads the first one just left . I think having a baby by someone you love and also having your first child are the two most special things

I think you will feel different once you have him though

I also feel the same about my first son this will be my second. but I'm sure I will love both the same way