Getting so tired of my fiancé... I'm just so annoyed with him all the time! Couldn't put my pizza…

@babyrossmommy, he's always done this. Like I was only making maybe 200 a month. An he stopped going to work an got fired an I didn't bitch at him once but yet it's okay to bitch at me for not having a job now. Like I don't get it. I'm just so tired of it

@babyrossmommy, exactly mine has been bad with horrible morning sickness to hurting when I walk. An yet he doesn't get it. It's draining being pregnant an he's always on his game after work an I don't complain about that yet he always has to say shit about me not having a job. Like are you freaking kidding me. I'm the one who moved our bedroom around, I'm the one who put all the baby stuff up an together, I'm the one who washes all your nasty laundry like ugh 🙄🙄😖😤

@babyrossmommy, mine works 8 hours a day, unless they get a train than it could be all day. But he hasn't helped clean anything, put anything together nothing. He doesn't get the stress of it. Plus I have to watch our two dogs that half the time don't listen one has a cast wrap on for his broken toe an I take him to the vet every week ect an he doesn't get the amount of stress it causes me. I just idk I don't want her growing up around all the fightin like I did an et he says she won't yet nothing has changed an I can't take it anymore. Everyone tells me to calmly talk to him I've tried that so many times it doesn't do anything. Only way I get help is if I complain. He doesn't clean up his messes nothing makes me feel like I'm gunna end up room care of her all the time with no help from him

@babyrossmommy, Yeahp he had a 4 day weekend to an what's he do goes out an does shit. Goes fishing an leaves me home with dogs like thanks I guess I don't deserve a day away before baby comes ig all I'm good for is watching animals an cleaning. I just I feel like crying all the time it's just too much lately

@babyrossmommy, like I could've gone with but he knew I didn't feel good an than had our dogs to watch. We went to a nearby more that night he got drunk an forgot we had dogs at home to get to like wth! Than got mad an me the other day an started a fight cause I didn't understand why he was waiting to put gas in his truck like are you freaking kidding me. I told him to take his ass upstairs an he kept being a dick an I was like seriously take your ass an go away. I'm so over it like I'm so ready to be like I need a break an space. Yet ik that'd be hard since we live with my parents but I just feel like I need a break

@babyrossmommy, they don't say much cause I don't tell them a lot an shit. I'm just over feeling like dirt. I try to always be happy but idk. I just feel like the fighting an crap is to crazy. Like I'm being induced Tuesday an he still doesn't seem to wann help me it's sill gets home from work than plays on his ps4 for 4-5 hours than sleeps than does it all over again every day like cool ig I'll be here watching Netflix alone like always...

@babyrossmommy, yeah an to make my day worse I have a cavity or a filling missing😫 doesn't hurt but part of the tooth is gone

@babyrossmommy, I have badger care. An finding one is so hard I haven't been to a dentist in like 2years. So I gotta call tomorrow an see what they can do. Like it doesn't hurt an I didn't notice it til I looked at my teeth. Ugh this week is just crap an it's only half way over lol

@babyrossmommy, oh jeez. Mines in my molar to!! Lol. Dentist make me eh cause they have you sit there for so long.

@babyrossmommy, oh wow that is bs.

Ugh I hate that! my husband told me for months to quit my job so he could work later, I did quit once I got pregnant but now he throws it in my face that he pays for everything! like he forgot he's the one who didn't want to have to b home by 6 so I could leave for work :(

@michellevaldez4750, yeah. Like before I got pregnant I was only making maybe 200 a month like that wasn't gunna help an we only had one car at the time than I got real bad sickness for the first trimester an than its been rough pregnancy an he has to always throw the whole he has a job I don't. Like I've told him I'll get a job but the money from my job would be paying for daycare, gas an that's probably about it. An maybe have like $60-100 left over for stuff. Cause daycare around here isn't cheap an most jobs pay no weekly an id only maybe like 800-900 a month. An daycare can get up to like 400 or so a month plus I'd have to fill up twice a week for gas so I feel like it's not worth it.. But I could be wrong, an me wanting to breastfeed I'd have to find a job where I can do that an store it. Idk I feel like it'd be to much for me to handle with being my first kid an all.

No you're right. day care is rediculous! I got lucky that my mom does daycare so when I did work during the day I didn't have to pay otherwise it definitely wouldn't be worth it to even have a job! smh

I think having to pump at work unless you've got a super cushy laid back office job would be completely overwhelming! especially like you said for a first time mom.

@michellevaldez4750, yeah. An we don't trust my mom watching her cause she passes out to easily an barely wakes up to the dogs barking. An I feel bad cause I don't have a job but I mean he knew that I wanted to be a stay at home mom before we found out I was pregnant. An he was ok with it than an now he's not.. Like ugh

yup! its bullshit. raising g kids and taking care of the home is a full time job! I only wish they could really see how much work it is!!!