I need help/advice my fiance has been acting weird. he keeps his phone on him unless it's dead and…
I need help/advice
my fiance has been acting weird. he keeps his phone on him unless it's dead and if I try to charge it when I come back to turn it on it's gone. we have gone from. going out to eat and having spare money to staying home broke. he is always a calm person. this week he ran through the house screaming and callin me names. he even called my mom and told her to come get me out of our house. last time he acted this way he got hooked up drugs to where I came home from work with it all over my pillow. I'm actually hoping he tells me he cheated before he tells me he is back on that crap.
Karna Marie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Time to investigate and confront... I know from personal experience that if they are protective of their phone there is something going on
kayla·
I'm sorry😞. my experience with the phone is cheating...
rnfalw2014·
В ожидании первенца
@karnamarie, he comes home Friday so I'm trying to figure out how to bring it up
Karna Marie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@rnfalw2014 I honestly would confront it head on. If you surprise him he won't have time to lie... he will be upset either way because he is either caught or being accused... You have to have a game plan going in. If you get it out of the way first then he won't have time to fill your head with lies...
rnfalw2014·
В ожидании первенца
he did the same thing with his phone last time I thought it was cheating and it turned out to be a serious drug problem. I just hope I'm over reacting and it's stress from the baby about to be here @kayla471
rnfalw2014·
В ожидании первенца
he will lie regardless. I have to actually listen to every word and see if he contradicted himself to tell if he is lieing @karnamarie
kayla·
i agree with @karnamarie
Rachel·
Мама сына (1 год)
Watch the way he acts, look at his pupils. If he is on drugs, you can almost always tell by their pupils, and how paranoid they are
Karna Marie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@rachel8792 is exactly right. Over reacting and paranoia is key indicators... unfortunately it is a lose lose situation... would definitely have an exit strategy just in case
rnfalw2014·
В ожидании первенца
all the signs are back the only thing different is this time he goes without eating and then he will eat everything in the kitchen
Rachel·
Мама сына (1 год)
Yes, have an exit strategy. Get out while you can if thats the case. I pray it isnt because that is a hard thing to overcome. My mom dealt with this for years, even with abuse, broken ribs, and guns to her head because drugs make u see things that arent there, be careful girl
rnfalw2014·
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I'm hesitating even asking. without him I have no where to go. my sister just moved back to my moms house and she's pregnant so there's not much room left. I know if something is wrong though I can't stay here with a baby. @karnamarie
Karna Marie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@rnfalw2014 Don't let him make you feel trapped... that's a form of control... it's a terrible feeling.
R🐘·
Мама сына-младенца
I'd be scared to be alone with him while pregnant.
rnfalw2014·
В ожидании первенца
he is an amazing guy don't get wrong. he has never put a hand on me. I just can't risk losing my baby because of stress or because of his stupidity. the fact that I can't figure out how to approach the situation makes me think I should pack a bag and go to moms to relax for a little anyways. @karnamarie
Karna Marie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@rnfalw2014 He might be an amazing guy... but a person on drugs is not themselves... Hun you just said he is a great guy and then followed with he wouldn't put his hands on me... Please just be careful