drives me nuts that im the only one who will do the dishes but everyone else will run it even when…

i deal w the same shit

I hand wash all the dishes I hate dish washers

Complain...no one likes to hear us nag, so someones gotta help in order to make the nagging stop. Lol. Do you live with a lot of people?

@tatted_mommy 8 people , 3 kids younger than 8 a teenager and 4 adults

4 adults? Thats not cool, I'm guessing you all contribute to rent and bills. So in my opinion either people switch off on dishes or everyone wash your own down to the spoon used.

For me, its hubby and I and my cousin. I clean up after hubby and me and my cousin picks up after himself. Its just better for me.

@tatted_mommy well its me, my boyfriend, his dad and his girlfriend. were staying with them until we get on our feet, me and my boyfriend dont pay rent but he works for his dad and he doesnt want me working so i stay home and clean up after everybody and if its not done then im the one that gets yelled at. i feel more like a maid than anything

I think its fine to contribute since you aren't paying rent, but you're pregnant and they should be considerate about that.

@tatted_mommy and thats my thing, its getting hard for me to bend down to unload the bottom of the dishwasher or to constantly bend down to fold their clothes out of the dryer. itd just be nice to get a little help with those things

I think you should talk to them about it.