I just had to pump to get Rocky food and he was screaming his head off and Brandon didn't even ask…
I just had to pump to get Rocky food and he was screaming his head off and Brandon didn't even ask if I needed help I had Rocky in my lap while I pumped trying to calm him down and Brandon just played his game and talked to his friends. I'm crying right now all I needed was a little help to calm Rocky down and he didn't even ask or look to see what was going on... 💔😔😭
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next time just ask him, if he can help you a bit, don't keep it inside and don't feel bad bc you need or ask for help, you are team, you have to work together 💞☺
Marlaena Lowe·
Мама сына-младенца
@domena84, I didn't keep it inside I just figured he heard the baby screaming his head off he was two feet away from him... then he asked me what was wrong afterwards and so I told him and he got mad and told me to leave..
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guys are weird, something what is obvious for us, is not always obvious for them, next time I will just give him Rocky and tell that I need pump and Rocky don't like the sound 😉 he can take few minutes break from playing or learn how to play with baby 😉 I know many times guys getting angry bc we don't tell them what we want, we just think they will figure out, and when we're mad bc they don't, that makes them feel even worse. I learned that if I want something best way is to ask or just tell my hubby that's his turn to do something. Just try find way to communicate without drama, you both are new to parenting and dealing with lots of emotions, and when he's over acting just calmly and simply tell him that you just ask for lil help, you don't want fight. It's not easy, and guys sometimes needs more time to used to new baby and fact that you need help, I hope that you will soon find way to work with your SO, best wishes 💞
Marlaena Lowe·
Мама сына-младенца
Thank you I really needed to hear that ❤️❤️ @domena84
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you're welcome, many new parents is dealing with similar situation, so don't feel bad, just try find solution. You don't do anything wrong it's all the emotions and everything is new, and you just want to be perfect for your baby, that's normal, take it one day at the time ☺ we all got days when we feel bit depressed or unsure, you are not alone 💞
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after 9y of being married and 6y of being mom, I'm learned to takes everything with some humor, especially if it's something about my hubby and when he really make me sad and I need me time I telling him that I'm not talking to him, and he starts laughing and tells me ok,when you are over "not talking part" just tell me 😅