so pissed off I could cry 😢 I asked my mum AGES ago to help me out with a scan I have on Thursday…

will they let u take her in with u? xx

they will but if she kicks off and starts screaming i won't be able to do anything as I'll be being scanned. @jod1303 😢

aww no 😣 is ya hubby working? x

could you not keep her in her buggy and take in snacks etc to keep her occupied while you are being scanned? @duchess92

lol i do feel for u hun wen i had private scan luckily my mum was there cos my son was kicking the hell off! but nhs ones here dnt let kids in anyway . hope u sort somethin hun xx

@jod1303, he was originally coming with me but my mum said months ago she would come and help so he booked in appointments at work for him to do and now she's pulled out and he can't cancel. i have no one around to help look after her so I've had to cancel and it's booked in on the 16th June. I'll be nearly 36 weeks!!! that's way too late in my eyes. that will be 6 weeks since my last one and I still don't know what is going to happen to me when it comes down to delivery as I was supposed to find out this time round - it was the most important appointment. part of me just wants to tell my mum to piss off and I don't want her to bother with me anymore. sick of her pretending to care. x

@mich77, if only it was that easy. when she sees me being scanned she freaks out. She doesn't like it, and now she's walking putting her in her pram is a nightmare in itself. she will just scream.

what reason has she gave u? does she not understand how important these scans are? my twins were here 36weeks. will she be goin with u at 36weeks? maybe ask for a telephone call with your consultant to talk about the plan of action for delivery? xxx

if i was closer id of helped out hun 😘

@jod1303, she's taking her friend to get their car serviced which is clearly more important. it annoys me that she's been saying she wants to be so involved and yet backs out of coming to see us and is always making excuses. her being involved is phoning me everyday and saying 'you sound stressed' she won't be going with me next time, no I don't trust her. she's supposed to be my point of contact when I go into labour so she can look after my daughter. I know you would hun, you're so sweet 😚 I'm just nervous about delivery xx

awe thats cruel! dont be nervous hun youre in the right place and trust me if u need assistance millions are on stand by waiting the right people you will be okay 😘❤ xxxx

thank you sweetie 😚💗 xxx @jod1303

anytime cant wait to see your gorgeous two 💓💓 xx