I'm starting to have a little resentment towards one of my step sons. He's been such a little jerk…
I'm starting to have a little resentment towards one of my step sons. He's been such a little jerk in the last couple of months, and now his little sister is here and he wants nothing to do with her and he thinks it's funny that he is being mean. He smirks with a sense of accomplishment knowing that it hurts everyone with the way he's being. He is almost 12 years old and I hate to say this but I've really grown to just not care much for who he chooses to be anymore. I'm so done, I just really needed to get that off of my chest. Judge me if you will but he is old enough to know better and I have no room for people who choose to be ugly all the time. 😒
Courtney·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (39 нед.)
I was always today I don't have to love my step children they aren't mine and it's the truth I do love my step son but your not his mother you don't have to care what happens to him sounds harsh but it's the truth
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (6 детей)
I've raised him and his brother since they were 3, they're almost 12 now. (twins) He acts like he hates me these days and hasn't even looked at his sister once since she was born the other day. He said he didn't want to be around when she was born, he says shes ugly and he's really hateful to my other children that live with us. always screaming and saying shitty things. he also lives with us full time and his mom is only around every now and then so.....it's kinda hard to not care about what happens or what he does. I just had to vent because it's so frowned upon to say anything negative about a step child but he is horrid. He used to be so sweet when he was little but idk what happened. I'm really starting to wish he'd move out but his pos mom probably wouldn't allow him to live with her, she never has. thanks though...you did make me feel a little better. @pregoprincess
Courtney·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (39 нед.)
I understand he might just be jealous of the new baby so he is acting out just give it more time
Mandy·
В ожидании первенца
It may just be his age, I know when I was around that age and a teen I was not easy to deal with so it may just be that time for him. @maybaby2016 sorry you're having to deal with that though rift after your baby girl was born 😟. Hopefully it will get better soon!!
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (6 детей)
he's been having issues for quite some time now and I don't understand it. before I became pregnant or anything, I care about him of course but I just can't deal with him anymore. I love that I can come on here and express how I feel. I've talked to my husband about it but I just can't say to him what I can say to my preggies. it just feels good to get it out, you know. thanks ladies. @m8626 @pregoprincess
Megan Beiriger·
Мама сына (1 год)
I feel you! I have 2 step daughters although they love their brother. whenever they are with their mom they talk about him how.ugly he is he has a big head just stuff that a baby has no control over he's innocent. it could just be jealousy as well. it's hard being a step.parent because even if you do raise a child for so many years people will always throw in your face you aren't their real parent yet you cloth them feed them teach them put a roof over their head but the parent who isn't there gets all the credit. hope things get better!!
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I know how you feel. I had felt like that with my step daughter for a long time. Although she was a teenager. she was horrible to me and to my kids. her mom had her baby sitting her little sisters 24/7 so she didn't like kids. well I never did that to her but she still treated them bad. she's an adult now and has 2 kids of her own, we have gotten to where we are close again and I'm so glad because I hated the way i felt about her!