and on top of that it seems like all the things I'm reading online talk about how the doctors are so dismissive of these symptoms acting like it's normal

Oh really? Did she have any other symptoms? I have heard about extreme loss of libido, sweats, bad cramping etc...

my cousin had her son natural (labor was fast 3 hours) and she had her tubes tied and she kept bleeding for months after... doc said her body was rejecting the fact that her tubes got tied.

They all talk about basically going into premenopausal like symptoms, no libido, pain and horrible periods. I was considering doing it bc I'm planned to haves a Csection but the stories are scaring me.

Im going to but what horror stories have you heard??