am i the only one that hasnt really enjoyed her pregnancy because of how i feel.. like i failed…

I feel the same way some days hun.. 😔 if u wanna talk feel free to message me

Please don't be so hard on yourself. I wish you could fast forward and see how things will work out. Remember God makes no mistakes. And if you want better for you and your baby take steps and make it happen. it won't be easy but you can do it. My life didn't start until I had my daughter. You got this

I think most of us felt or feel this way. I'm 27 a lead teacher at a daycare and in school for pharmacy technician. Have a terrible health condition that keeps me in the bed most of the time I have a 7 year old and now pregnant again I'm only 6 weeks but feel like maybe wasn't the best choice especially cause I'm in chronic pain 24/7. I'm here if you need to talk

I felt exactly that way, 19, no education past high school, & while I was pregnant I was working at smiths making 7.25 to literally clean other people's crap off of walls in the restroom, but after I had my babies I realized how truly blessed I was that they chose me to be their mommy. Especially when I wake up every morning & I have their eyes staring at me and big smiles on their faces

I feel the same way as well and I think a lot about it pretty much everyday. I saw myself in a totally diff place in my life at this age and time of having a baby. Also I'm down a lot due to my health during my pregnancy and I feel useless but I do try to find the positives and I know my son will make my life better . . Still waiting tho to find that sense of relief that I'm not so bad and the choices I've made aren't either . It's nice to see I'm not the only one too tho 🙌🏼 , you can message me anytime if you want to talk also 👍🏼

I have felt the same way and sometimes the feeling comes back when things seem to not go so well! I just try and remind myself that my kids need me and they are my motivation to improve myself. It will get better

Let me tell you something my parents never had "careers" they just took jobs as they came to make enough money for our family and I will be forever grateful for that! You're doing a wonderful job. You just keep working hard and that is all that matters. You'll get where you want to be someday! And until then work hard just like you are and your baby will always be proud of you!

awh! dont be too hard on yourself. everything that happens in this life is ment to happen. its a good thing u have a job and a stable place to stay. and the fact that your still young u can still accomplish alot a baby is extra work but im sure your life will adjust.

I feel like this sometimes

That's a natural emotion. When baby comes you'll see your way. I had my daughter at 26 I felt young and unprepared however at 6 years old she is my best friend. best wishes

thanks alott guys.. all the kind words and thoughts are appreciated

I feel this way a lot! But our babies deserve life. And when I feel this way I feel bad for my baby because he deserves the best! And I feel like a failure and a bad mom I have health issues and I just moved and don't have a job so I beat myself up over it.