So as were in the process of buying a house , my boyfriend is a little shy of the income requirements for the VA loan in order to use my income because I make more money than him :) lol we have to be married after a very long 3 days talking about it, were gonna take the next step and do it. Will do a civil ceremony till we close and move in our house than will plan an actually wedding. I always wanted to be a mom, homeowner and wife its just crazy the order its happening though lol