Everyone is outside grilling, playing games and drinking and I'm inside holding my sweet baby. I'm cool with my…

Preach!!! I feel the same way!!! I wouldn't trade my girls for the world, but sometimes I just wish he would care for the girls on the same level as myself. Then again that's asking a lot because I'm borderline crazy when it comes to lovin them. Lol. Hang in there mama. It'll get better.

@twinmama510, it's so hard because he wanted a baby as much as I did and he loves her and is great with her but is also ok if he doesn't spend every second with her. We used to spend every second together and now I feel like I have a baby and he still has his old life :(

I understand completely

Exactly!!! I can empathize so well. He still does whatever he wants, and I'm with the girls. I'm also exclusively breastfeeding, so I often feel lonely being as I'm alone a lot with two newborns because they need to feed all the time. I really think it will get better though. Have you talked to him about it?

@twinmama510, I haven't really talked to him about it. I've made comments but not actually said this is how I feel. I just think all the time, must be nice to be you. He gets all the good things of being a parent but doesn't have to make sacrifices like I have

@sarahemccormick, it's tough! I love my baby so much but I miss my partner 😔

@ella1007, I know...my husband and I have had it really rough lately. And I am with the baby every minute of every day..and we haven't spent hardly any time together at all that's worth a damn, and when we do its mostly just been sexual and that hurts because I feel like that's all he wants anymore, rather than companionship like I want and need. Ugh 😢😧 I could go on right now, but I wont. I'm sorry everything is so tough for you tonight and lately. Hang in there, we have to believe things will get better xo

@sarahemccormick, thanks! I'm here if you ever want to talk/vent. It has to get better!! I think I'm being super emotional lately which doesn't help. I had to go back to work and I swear this birth control is making me nuts

@ella1007, what bc are you on? I swear I think my Mirena is turning me into the devil himself these past few days

and thank you - I am also here for you as well! I've also been super crazy emotional these past few weeks and it's driving me nuts

@sarahemccormick, thanks 😘 I really think I need to talk to my dr about my birth control. I've never been so emotional/sensitive