I'd rather do a baby shower just bc I don't want my baby being around so many people and potentially making her sick.

@armani711, it seems to be creating drama with my sister in law. I think I will hold on to my opinion of no baby shower and stick with the meet the baby.

@kobena, no they understood I didn't wanna be stressing over a shower and I'm not sure yet she prolly would be 3 weeks or so

@armani711, did you have family that were upset about you not having a baby shower? how old is the baby going to be when you have the bbq?

I'm doing a meet the baby bbq

@cubanese good point