you're right kind of theyre not sure how much or how little is safe but it can cause fetal alcohol syndrome which I'm sure won't come from one glass however I'm not risking a drop personally but everyone is different and will do different things. some cultures and religions believe I'm certain things and I'm not anyone to judge for any reason. I just share info as I see fit @kingdamari,
I personally don't however some ladies will choose a glass here n there. and my doctor says red wine is actually good in small quantities for you and baby... now getting drunk that's dif. some smoke weed some drink soda coffee or wine to help themselves. it's you taking care of you and yours.
my husband and I went on vacation for our anniversary and stopped at the winery there and got some amazing smelling Apple wine!! I was so upset :( and he ended up throwing it out because he didn't like it!!😬 I feel your pain. I took a sip to try it and it was AMAZING. I was so mad he threw it out.