Me and my fiancé live 40 mins away from each other we just had a baby and don't have anything to our name. He's off every Thursday and Sunday and he comes see or or sometimes we go see him....since we are trying to get ourselves a car and place he wants to get a second job which I understand because I'm not working but if he gets a second job he's never going to have time for our daughter and I'm upset about that. The cost of living is way too high in Miami and we're young so I want to move up north but he doesn't want to because he says we don't know anyone up there and that we'd be starting from scratch but I feel like he wasn't really there in my pregnancy and he's missing a lot now that she's here so this is the only way that we can get what we need to take care of our daughter together and not just me. Unfortunately he doesn't see it that way. It makes me so sad because it's not fair to my little girl that her daddy isn't going to be around like that and the thing is he barely knows anything about her like her favorite song or how to put her to sleep nothing I feel like he's going miss her growing up and their not going to have such a strong bond and I didn't sign up to be taking care of her by myself even though I love her to pieces