I feel like people still see me as a little girl & ig don't consider me as a mom .. Its hard cuase…

I feel like people still see me as a little girl & ig don't consider me as a mom .. Its hard cuase am berly learning but NOBODY helps me take care of my son except me & i feel like am doing a pretty good job without no ones help , but sometimes i might have questions i only like askin my mom , when i ask other moms(some) they try to preach to me or make me feel stupid . I need ur advice , dont try to put me down 🙄😤