So abortion is the topic of the day on my Facebook today. A associate from high school is very pro…

I feel if you're old enough to have sex, you're old enough to take care of a baby... :)

The way I see it is like this. If it's really the woman's choice and her body why doesn't the abortion kill her? It doesn't kill the mom it kills the baby she is carrying so it's not really her body or choice because she isn't doing physical harm to herself she is doing it to someone else.

@kasieerin, or old enough to decide if adoption is better for the baby. Plenty of woman who care bare children but the woman who can just kill them.

@mommytobe0703, right you can't tell anyone to do with their body. And I'd never tell someone what to do cause again like I said everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Everyone has a story and as a woman if your having sex you know what comes with it and if a baby is something you don't want just protect yourself.

now don't get me wrong.. I understand certain reasons or circumstances for abortion.. but keep in mind not all babies who go for adoption are actually adopted out... adoption is also a hell of a lot more expensive than an abortion... I personally wouldn't do either choice.. but I'm In a way of understanding... I feel if you bring a baby in this world you should step up and try your best to take care of it... or try to personally find a family for your child...

@mommytobe0703, I agree with you late term abortions are bullshit!! I don't care.. the girl should have made up her mind in the early stages.. before it becomes and actual fetus, growing human...

I'm not going into the explanation many of my wonderful ladies had points to make above @cubanese @mommytobe0703 ... I am and will always be 100% pro choice and no matter the rest of the bs explanations someone will try and hand me because they are pro life will ever change my stance... now let the hating begin... step up if you dare lmao

Unless the female is constantly willingly having unprotected sex & getting pregnant then having abortions, I don't see anything wrong with abortions. At the end of the day, as a female you have to make the best choice for yourself & it's none of my business..I cant judge anyone.

@mommytobe0703, well I'm not talking down on anyone. That's my views and like i said we are all entitled to our opinions. What may work for me may not work for another woman. And when it comes to rape I do agree with you and everything you said about that.

@cubanese, first off I'm sorry you had to go through that at a young age. And sorry you had no one to help talk to you about all the options. And when it comes to woman who are rapped they weren't given a chance so under that circumstances it's different

I consider myself pro life and have for a very long time. However, you get to see and experience some things as you get older. Some of which have swayed my thoughts on the subject. I believe in the safety and well being of both the child and the mother equally. None of this "save the baby first" crap that many pro-life people believe. The mother is a life too. One that people seem to forget about.

As it stands, I believe that you don't need to be having sex (whether it's homosexual or heterosexual) until you're at a place/age where you can emotionally and financially handle the possible outcomes. That means pregnancy as well as STDs/HIV and even heartbreak. This is what I will teach my children.

As for others who are in different situations in their lives, I believe both baby and mother should be deemed important. Usually that results in an adoption or the mother raising the child (even in rape situations) but in cases where the mom is so poor or so beat up or so uneducated or sick, or even the baby is sick (trisomy cases) or either of them are in such bad situations that she and/or her baby have no chance of life, then I believe that it is up to the mother to decide what needs to be done. Sometimes these decisions HAVE to be made. Kind of like when a family tries to gold on to a person who has become brain dead. That person has no life ahead of them. Why disrespect their life and body by having them just sit around. Preserve the life they once had. Not the painful, sickly, and basically non existent one they're in right now.

Getting an abortion is not an easy decision to make . Once apon a time , I made a decision to get one almost two years ago . Being stupid , I had sexual relations with a man who said we would be together . But instead fucked me over & went back with his ex. With already being a single mom , I couldn't bare doing that again with TWO kids !! I didn't deserve what he did to me & neither did my unborn child . So I made the decision to abort at 7 weeks even ! & I took the pill . I went to the clinic ALONE ! No friends , no family , just ME ! I went through the ENTIRE process alone ! After the abortion I was depressed for about 6 months . Did I want to harm my baby ? HELL NO ! That child had a heartbeat & all ! I was devastated! One year later , after falling in love with the loml now , I hardly ever think about it now . Being pregnant with his son now , has taught me that I should've been careful . I should have never gave that ond thing ALL OF ME , without knowing what an ASS he was . & I hated him for it ! It taught me a lesson guys . What I'm saying is , you never know what someone is going through & before that situation I was AGAINT abortion myself ! I NEVER thought I'd do that to myself ! But I did . People make mistakes . People get raped , people end up in situations that blind side you . You wouldn't even expect it . So for that I just let people do what they do ... As for late term abortion , that is one thing I CANNOT get down with . Only a sick person would do down thing like that ... Risky sharing my story . But there it goes . 😕

@cubanese, this is why we need to educate our children boys and girls. At the end of the day if parents spoke to their children more and kept it real I trust and believe their would be less abortions. And I'm still sorry lol cause I know it must have been difficult at the young age. And I don't judge you. You did what you felt was best and like you said you don't regret your decision. As long as you don't can't no one tell you shit. Although I don't agree with it you probably had your reasons.

@xoxoalexusss, i would never get one but I have supported friends who have inlet them know my feelings toward it but still remainded a friend cause I know how hard this decision can be. But I had one family member who aborted her son illegally at 5 months and that I could not support. I will never speak bad on woman who choice to abort their child cause at the end of the day I am not God. I just don't personally agree with it. And everyone has different stories and situations and fight their own battles.

@xoxoalexusss, and thank you for sharing your story. :) I know it's not easy to think about let alone speak on it. And I'm in no place to judge nor bash you. You did what you felt what is right for you.

I agree completely . @amaperalta03

Thank you so much . @amaperalta03

@xoxoalexusss, no problem woman sometimes forget that we need to stick together no matter our differences. Regardless of the differences woman need to be understanding of other woman. And I'm strong on my beliefs but I can not hate bash on another woman for her beliefs

So glad we can have this talk with out anyone getting rude and nasty. Again we are all entitled to our opinions. And I'm always down to hear others views and opinions. I'm not perfect and in no place to judge I just will always stand by my beliefs for myself. @cubanese @mommytobe0703 @xoxoalexusss

@mommytobe0703, I thought that's how it would end up but I'm glad it didn't

I was a incest baby so that means I had no right to live because I had no real dad

a life Is a life no matter what the situation is

just my opinion

I'm believe yes a women has a right to do what she feels it's her right... But that baby didn't ask to be here so why must that baby have to die because of you was being irresponsible.. Now I'm not talking about women who was rape or women who had a sickness.. I'm talking about women who out here fucking and every time they get pregnant they run and get abortion

I was raped at 15 by my foster brother... I am and always will be Pro life because that baby's heart began to beat for a reason just like you and I.I was also a baby that was not wanted by my mother because of my gender. My grandmother (God rest her soul) raised me . I've always been told I've got a heart of gold. I do not see a reason to kill a blessing whether or not you were raped or just wanted to have sex... I gave birth to my daughter at 16 I found her a family and she knows who I am and knows I will always be her friend if she needs it. I could not have ever imagined having her ripped apart out of my womb. God would have never ever allowed her heart to beat if He didn't have a plan for her life... I thank God daily for allowing me to go through that because thru that situation I was made the strong young woman I am today .... all I am saying is it is no longer your body when another body begins to form within you.