I'm really fucking depressed... I feel so alone ... I'm married and my husband is here laying next…

Have you tried expressing your feelings to him?

yes I have :( dosent help ...

he works 12+ hours and comes home and ignores me pretty much...

I explained how I feel unloved and unwanted because he dosent spend time with me (I even said when he is home )

and he went on a rant asking if he should just quit his job so he can stay home and meet my attention needs ...

all I want is cuddles , kisses , some conversation or something that doesn't involve him staring at his phone in till he goes to bed... @kaylaskibinski

I'm sorry Hun! I know what you mean tho! I deal with the same crap and then they make you feel like your asking to much! Smh! If you ever need to vent just shot me s message cause I can def relate! Hope you feel better!

I'm sorry. He shouldn't make you feel bad about wanting his attention and affection when he comes home. 😔

@brittanylove, thank you ...it's to the point I'm actually going to call a therapist and make some appointments...

I literally walked out of the house today and just keep on walking , he didn't call nothing !

and I'm a high risk pregnancy and been having huge issues ...it literally killed me

@kaylaskibinski, not your fault hun ..I just wish he understood.

I keep talking about it and he just doesn't change ...

If that was my hubby acting like that I would smack the shit out of him. It's common courtesy to show love and respect to the person you're with, especially while pregnant and emotionally vulnerable.

I think that's a great idea! I e been seeing someone for 3 years now and I can tell you now it doesn't hurt! Men can be very selfish and inconsiderate sometimes. And some don't even realize it! Or either think they aren't doing anything wrong. I've been to hospital twice now and both times didn't get a phone call or even checked on when I finally got home. Neither time did he ask what the Drs said or how the baby was doing! Sometimes I just want to slap the crap out of him lol! So I feel your pain! Talking to a therapist could really help tho! Especially if you find one that you click with! They can become like a best friend! Lol you can gossip n vent n cry or scream n there is no judgment n always on your side lol! Can't get any better then that