I noticed, to us? The second we feel that first movement, that first kick. The moment we see that…
I noticed, to us? The second we feel that first movement, that first kick. The moment we see that little face? It all becomes real, we fall in love.. I wish it was like that for men, it's like he's not real to his father yet. That he doesn't matter because he's not here yet. It breaks my heart seeing how little he's involved..
Melissa·
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My mom's a therapist and she told me most men don't bond because they see us getting bigger, but don't feel the baby kick or move like we do. So it's surreal to them. When they see the baby's face for the first time when he or she is born, it usually changes. Have you taken him with you to an ultrasound? Or an appointment?
Desaray·
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I know what you mean they have no connection. It sucks. The only time my BF seems excited is when we see our baby on the ultrasound and that wears of after a couple days.
Monique·
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He used to go, we even did a 3D appointment and it just doesn't sink in for him. We seperated, now we're 7 hours apart and rarely talk.. @missliss I figure he'll change once the baby's here but, we'll see.
Melissa·
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@littlelentil, hang in there, beautiful. I'm sure it will be different once the baby is here. I've known guys who weren't very excited but once they saw their baby they cried or fell in love. Wishing only the best for your family