warning this is a full on rant....

You need to take those babies and leave!! What a low life.

Awe , omg I am so sorry u had to go through that !! That's so not right what a jerk poor baby .

it'll be harder with this one, leave now. :(

@babyboy449, I know :( it breaks my heart and then he wonders why our son has an attitude lately with him....because he treats him like dogshit! now what about when the baby's here? do I have to worry he won't feed him too? and will also mistreat him? I don't even know what t do, we just moved into our beautiful 2nd apartment and I'm about to have his 2nd baby...wtf was I thinking? @mandy890

That is no way for your babies to grow up. Especially by their own father. He sounds like a dick. If it was me I'd leave. I know much easier said than done! But in the end it will be better for you and those babies

I agree with @mandy890

I'd leave before the baby is born. Sorry yall have to go threw that.

I know, your right but the problem I'm facing now is that I just put myself into this new lease and got baby's room all set up and the entire house for that matter (mind you, literally everything is mine) and I have a suspended license so I can't leave whenever I want...that's why I feel stuck @mandy890

u don't think I should see if maybe he changes for the better after the baby is born? maybe it will open his eyes? idn I placed too much hope in him@vella89 @mommytofour

You should kick him out if it's mostly your stuff . Maybe some tough love hopefully will open his eyes . He shouldn't be talking to you or your son like that at all it breaks my heart just hearing this I have a 8 year old son and just your son being around the same age and hearing that he was getting into trouble for nothing when it was the dads fault hurts .. I hate that your son was crying it really breaks my heart .

Btw I'm having another boy to!!

aww were in like the same child situation with our older boys and due around the same time! so cool and I would kick him out but his name is on the lease (although I know there's ways around that) I also know I won't be able to afford this without him, he pays the 900$ rent and I pay the small bills...I couldn't do it...I'm so fucking stressed and on top of it my son told me he got spanked too for no reason....I just don't get how he could be so cruel

@babyboy449, ^

sounds like he needs to grow the fuck up and check himself. Calling you names and not having common sense that he is the adult who needs to feed a child that he's in charge of while your out for what ever reason. What excuse would it be if you were working and came home to find this stuff out. Like what the actual fuck. No excuse on his part for being a dumb ass.

your right, wish it were all that easy but then there's the huge aftermath of not having enough to pay rent and him going to court and me having no license at the moment, I just Don't see it working either way :( @mommytobe0703

@tiffrae, funny that u say that bc I was telling him to himself after he said that to me, I must of said over ten times that it's not our 7 year Olds fault that his dad was irresponsible and didn't feed him, he's calling me an idiot and a fat ass, um pretty sure he's the idiot

@summerbaby89, crazy , we have both older boys around the same age ... About to have another one ! And , I too don't have a license ... Lol . I just pray it all will work out for you , just gotta make sure your babies are ok . I don't like hearing that your son is getting treated like that makes me wanna go hug my boy I am too emotional for this ... Hormoans . If u need to talk sometime u can pm me for sure !

@mommytobe0703, I'm so stressed as it is, I don't even know where to start but I take ur advice to heart so thank u

he was physically abusive back when I was 19 but we split for 5 years and it took him that long to get me back, he hasn't done nothing again bc he knows I won't play that shit!!! never never never fuck that @mommytobe0703

He seriously sounds like a fucking asshole. Saying that to a complete stranger makes me remind myself I'm too much like my mother 😆 and I need to cut it out.

lol, no, I'm sitting back and putting it into perspective and thinking wow, this shit is terrible and I'm living it, what the fuck?! @tiffrae

yeah, I know, he fooled me this last time, he suckered me in and made me think those five years without my son and me showed him things and helped him become a better man and father, (hence the reason I'm pregnant again) now I'm finding myself stuck in something similar again (shame on me!!!) @mommytobe0703

what @mommytobe0703 said... he needs walking papers and to be slapped with child support and that is all... it doesn't get better

you're both right :, ( @sparklymama @mommytobe0703

@mommytobe0703, awww such a great way to put it, wish u were here to push me to have the strength lol

I would ignor his ass for being such a fucking idiot and asshole. Don't ever count on him to care for your son either. hopefully you two can figure it out if that's stay together or separate again because being verbally abusive like that in front of your son isn't healthy.

@tiffrae, there have been many times like this just as bad and he never learns, he continues to disappoint me, he has issues, I kind of know in my heart that it will never work bc of him entirely and it's a hard conclusion to come to

@summerbaby89, you need to leave ASAP cause when they emotionally abuse it can get worst... And how the hell he not feed his son.. I hope you do what's best for you and your kids... Keep your head up okay

@mommytobe0703, ur not alone, I'm already where u are believe me, I dealt with him being physical and cheating at 18 and was in a another horrible relationship after him, I have been in nothing but unhealthy relationships like u unfortunately so I guess u could say I'm kind of used to the abuse and it's not that I accept it but I learned to basically live with it but I don't want to anymore

@nelly1991, your completely right, thank u

ms ummerbaby89, you welcome you have my support.. I been thru it