It really pisses me off when "friends" have these types of comments. Since when is being a mom not…

why not do both. But I totally see what you're saying being a mom is a blessing not a curse like your friend is making it out to be. that's just wrong

they don't know the feeling of creating life

Your friend probably doesn't have children and understand what it's like to be a mom. I always thought I'd work full time and have a baby but when my little girl came I decided to be a stay at home mom and watch her grow.

Omg I had a friend tell me that even when I had a 9-5 job that paid really well and being a mom. How is that not good enough? Who cares mama. Not any of her business.

@hermommy, I'm not saying working is wrong, but what's the problem with taking a break off of work or a career to help raise your children before you send them off to school?

@babynessa, yah and he's gay so he never will

@alexislopez, you know child care is super expensive. So I mean if you do work all he money you are working for will basically go to child care, and your child will be raised by someone other than yourself

@alexislopez, right I'm not working anymore, I don't want someone around my baby more than me. If your baby has all needs without you working, take advantage of it!

@mombie2be no no thats not what I meant girl, there is nothing wrong with that I just meant that as an answer I her question because sje was acting like being a mom was horrible

@hermommy, oh i see! But it's actually my gay guy friend. Who I've been considering cutting off with those replies

@mombie2be shoot I wish and so do alot of others that I could stay home with my sweet girl forever❤ to me that's the most rewarding thing ever. I totally dont blame you there is nothing wrong with being a mommy

Honestly. That pisses me off too. I would get so mad.