NEED WOMEN ADVICE:: So my baby daddy is planning a trip to Mexico to visit his mom. the first time I…

That's really hard... She sounds like a very close minded person. I really don't have any advice bc I'm a "fuck em" kind of person, but I hope it all works out and stay strong! At the end of the day it's your SO's opinion that matters most.

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Hmmm... Well if she wants her granddaughter, she needs to accept you. My husband is from Mexico as well, but his mom and sisters love me. I wish I had better advice. I'd tell your man to tell her she needs to quit acting childish and accept that he loves you and that's what matters.

I've decided I'm not going nor taking my baby. my bby's father will just have to accept that. I'm hurt that she still doesn't like me. I thought she did after these 5years

this is the first time a that a mother in law has not liked me nor accepted me. :(

I hate to say but she won't accept you most Mexicans don't especially the Mexico ones cause they are close minded but go and don't let her be inferior

I think you should go, but just to show her you really care about her son. Show kindness and strength toward her and let her see that her mean words can't hurt you. Sooner or later she'll realize that and accept you. It'll probably take some time, just don't let her break you.

your right @2beautifulboys =)

so my baby daddy says that it's bc

she feels like I taped him :'(

I would act like that doesn't even bother me (even if it does). If you show weakness she'll know she can get inside your head. I wouldn't even tell your boyfriend if it bothers you, in case he tells her. She'll recognize that you'll be in her life, whether she likes it or not, with or without her support.

Is the trip while you are pregnant? And did you talk to your doctor about it? Most of Mexico is on the do not travel list for pregnant women because of Zika. 😰

My mother inlaw hated meh to because she thought I was stuck up and all it took was for me to sit down and have a talk with her for she could see who I really was . Mexican mother Inlaws are the worst but after they accept you your like there daughter . I say go to Mexico

Oh I didn't know. yes it was going to right now that I'm pregnant @kenitra

I did have a talk with her and I thought we were good until I over heard my bby's father say that he thinks she doesn't like me, and when I told him that I heard what he was saying he said that it was bc lately she's been saying that I trapped him with out two babies and that I was the one that made him get me pregnant. :'( @sara_360

go and tell your hubby to defend you and stick on your side

she needs to know now theres a babie that bring you guy togethere so she need to be a better person and accept you because her son is happy with u and she should be happy too