VENT: I literally get zero sleep at night with AJ and during the day, I can't rest at all because I…
VENT: I literally get zero sleep at night with AJ and during the day, I can't rest at all because I still have to take care of him and Selena all day long. If AJ is asleep, Selena is awake and same vice versa. I'm so so sleep deprived. My SO went into Selenas drawer earlier to grab a sweater for her and noticed I put a sweater back in that has a stain. I'm so tired, I almost used butt cream for toothpaste this morning. He even had the damn nerve to ask why I didn't clean up today. Like, ARE YOU KIDDING ME. I'm sorry not everyone gets to sleep all night and then be gone at work all day. Omg, I almost killed him when he said that. He's right tho, staying at home with a toddler and newborn is easy. 😒 He wouldn't last 5 mins alone much less all day long. 😤
Martee 💋💋·
Мама троих детей
Oh girl you need a break maybe the next time I'm in la
Jessica cordero·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@reaganmommy2015, I just don't even understand what could possibly possess him to even have the nerve to say something like that. I swear I thought my kids weren't going to have a dad for a minute. Instead of, "hey babe let me help you now that I'm home", I get "wow looks like you didn't get much done around here today..." Ungrateful jerk. 😔
Sara·
Мама сына-младенца
Ugh im sorry I can't imagine having 2 to take care of! I'm sorry he was so insensitive to you ))): you are being an awesome mom I hope you get some sleep soon girl
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dang that would have set me off. I get that he's at work and you're at home with the kids but once he's home he should not ever say anything negative he should definitely know you're trying your best doing everything you can. and being sleepy basically zombie mode is not fun. it makes you so irritable. I really do hope you find a balance even tho they have different sleep schedules. you definitely deserve/need rest
Jessica cordero·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@dohmommy2016, @mamaash Thanks mamas. I'm definitely more irritable. I told him if he wasn't satisfied, he could stay home with them alone and I would go back to work. Of course he didn't say anything because he knows just as well as I do that he couldn't do it. I got a 2 hour nap in with both of them today which was nice but he could still offer to help instead of just point out everything that's not done.
madilynn16·
Мама двоих (младенец)
If you are not breastfeeding you have your SO take care of kids on his day off while you have mommy time to yourself where don't have to do anything.