i honestly have zero respect or sympathy for guys who beat their woman or abuse them in any way! 😤 i…
i honestly have zero respect or sympathy for guys who beat their woman or abuse them in any way! 😤 i was in an abusive relationship in the past & i know first hand how fucking traumatizing it is & i'm lucky to have escaped it. it makes me so mad when i hear ppl try to blame the victim for sticking around or judge what they don't know. 😡 abuse doesn't happen overnight, it happens slowly and before you know it, its a life or death situation.
Zyanne·
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My bd said one time it was my fault that I was in such a relationship like that not knowing all i endured . that will always run through my mind him saying some stupid shit like that because it wasn't easy trying to leave
Romana ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@novasmother, ugh. I hate comments like that. it is so disgusting to try to blame anyone but the abuser. 😡 I know for me, it took months for me to finally leave him even after we broke up. its tough.. it psychologically messes you up and makes you think that's all you're good for.
Zyanne·
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Smh yes, I was with him for a year. . I couldn't go anywhere,I always had black eyes busted lips at one point I even need stiches smh.. he abused me even in public..we had a baby ferret and he killed it..I've never been with a monster before hell I couldn't even communicate with my family because he always broke my phone or always took it with him to work. .. I'd wish my baby's father would understand that but he says some stupid shit at times and I feel as if I bite my tongue way to much.. @mommytomia_
Romana ·
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@novasmother, oh my god that all sounds too familiar. especially the animal abuse! my ex shot my dog 😩 they say anyone who will kill an animal, will have no problem killing humans 😩 and I'm sorry your current bf doesn't understand the severity of it.. mine doesn't either. 😑 I just stopped venting to him about it. I still get nightmares of abuse from my ex every now and then. i am just so thankful I did NOT get pregnant with him.. 😩
Zyanne·
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That's exactly what I don't do anymore. .even the little things my baby father does at times brings flashbacks and I hate it..I rather not flinch when were just play fighting for joking around..i was blessed as well that I didn't get pregnant by my ex and the sad thing is his family knew how he treated me yet they still let it all happen. ..
marchmomma989·
Мама троих детей
@novasmother, @mommytomia_ I was in the same situation as u ladies the only diff from u ladies is I have a child with my abuser 😢 but I have the Best part of that horrible relationship my SON!