everything is hitting me today.. I feel very stressed and depressed I don't know what to do I feel like I'm not going to have anything ready for the baby. I feel like my baby shower is going to be a complete chaos party instead of enjoying it I'm stressing it. I need advice. I'm a young first time mom and even though I have all the support I can get I still feel as though nobody is going to help..
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
I wish I knew my baby's gender already even though I have a feeling it's going to be a boy 🙈 I just want to be reassured! Has any of you mommies guessed the gender of your baby right? Mine is just a gut feeling that I'm having a boy 😍👣
who's due in July?? how much baby stuff do you already have? I feel like I'm behind! 😔
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?