I personally waited 8 weeks and it felt normal no hurting or pains lol and when I delivered I got 2 stiches so my body healed well. :) now almost a year later I dont even feel like I popped out a kid lol
lol omg i cant wait till i feel like i didnt even pop out a baby haha im 2 1/2 weeks PP & very much feel like i popped out a kid lol what was yuur babies birth wieght tho?@des_a_rayy
We waited 3 1/2 months due to the 6 weeks healing and then gallbladder surgery recovery. But even with the advise from my OB to get lube. We used a ton and it felt like I was losing my virginity again. Tmi but my husbands penis is really large so I think that had a lot to do with it. Plus breastfeeding makes our vaginas dryer so it was rough. After the 4th time it was back to normal
I waited 8 weeks and it took about 2 weeks on top of that to fully have sex because it hurt so bad each time we had to stop. My body still gets very tense and stiff 7 months later every time we have sex because of how bad it was. Use a ton of lube and save yourself from the pain lol. Even with lube it hurt a lot but it was better. I think I should've used even more of it. So my advice is use twice the amount you think you'd need lol
Let your body heal :) youll know when the time is right lol remember you had a human being come out of you so it probably wont feel normal for a little bit lol I remember I couldnt even sit down and now since like 8 weeks we have sex 2-3 times a week and it feels like before @lezette
My son weighed 7lbs 9ozs, I remember yelling while I was pushing saying it felt like an apple was stuck hahahaha he will be 1 in June now@heeykayly and I feel completely normal lol when I was 2 weeks pp I couldnt even sit hahaha :)
If it hurts don't push yourself. TMI coming up but yeah I used to tell him go a little in and then stop and I would wait for it to stop hurting and then tell him to go a little more and stop and then wait for it to stop hurting and just do that over and over. It took a lot of tries but eventually we were able to actually have sex hahaha
@lezette, it was really hard for me. I wasn't allowed to hold my daughter at all even sitting for the first week it hurt so bad and she's a kicker and then when I was allowed to hold her she'd kick me in the area where my gallbladder came out. I didn't get to hold her for 12 days :(
Kayly·
Мама дочки-младенца
forreal i hear it feels like yuur giving birth again & yuur vagina is ripping back open 😭 im terrified too lol
Desaray·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 46 лет)
I personally waited 8 weeks and it felt normal no hurting or pains lol and when I delivered I got 2 stiches so my body healed well. :) now almost a year later I dont even feel like I popped out a kid lol
Desaray·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 46 лет)
@heeykayly, lol ^^^thats for both of you ladies :)
missing369user·
Мама дочки-младенца
Mine are horror stories 😕
Angelique Lezette·
Мама дочки-младенца
@des_a_rayy, I didn't rip or anything.. Thing that feels funny is like around my clitoris area, lol. It still bothersome
Kayly·
Мама дочки-младенца
lol omg i cant wait till i feel like i didnt even pop out a baby haha im 2 1/2 weeks PP & very much feel like i popped out a kid lol what was yuur babies birth wieght tho?@des_a_rayy
Dj·
Мама дочки-младенца
We waited 3 1/2 months due to the 6 weeks healing and then gallbladder surgery recovery. But even with the advise from my OB to get lube. We used a ton and it felt like I was losing my virginity again. Tmi but my husbands penis is really large so I think that had a lot to do with it. Plus breastfeeding makes our vaginas dryer so it was rough. After the 4th time it was back to normal
missing369user·
Мама дочки-младенца
I waited 8 weeks and it took about 2 weeks on top of that to fully have sex because it hurt so bad each time we had to stop. My body still gets very tense and stiff 7 months later every time we have sex because of how bad it was. Use a ton of lube and save yourself from the pain lol. Even with lube it hurt a lot but it was better. I think I should've used even more of it. So my advice is use twice the amount you think you'd need lol
Desaray·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 46 лет)
Let your body heal :) youll know when the time is right lol remember you had a human being come out of you so it probably wont feel normal for a little bit lol I remember I couldnt even sit down and now since like 8 weeks we have sex 2-3 times a week and it feels like before @lezette
Angelique Lezette·
Мама дочки-младенца
@kreeblim, I'm about to see my surgeon for gallbladder:( lol I'm scared
Angelique Lezette·
Мама дочки-младенца
@mamesey, I feel like that will be me
Angelique Lezette·
Мама дочки-младенца
I'm a month & 3 days pp @des_a_rayy lol and I miss it 😭😭
Desaray·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 46 лет)
My son weighed 7lbs 9ozs, I remember yelling while I was pushing saying it felt like an apple was stuck hahahaha he will be 1 in June now@heeykayly and I feel completely normal lol when I was 2 weeks pp I couldnt even sit hahaha :)
missing369user·
Мама дочки-младенца
If it hurts don't push yourself. TMI coming up but yeah I used to tell him go a little in and then stop and I would wait for it to stop hurting and then tell him to go a little more and stop and then wait for it to stop hurting and just do that over and over. It took a lot of tries but eventually we were able to actually have sex hahaha
Desaray·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 46 лет)
lol be patient and try when you feel ready the longer you wait if anything your body will be relaxed and healed! @lezette
Dj·
Мама дочки-младенца
@lezette, it was really hard for me. I wasn't allowed to hold my daughter at all even sitting for the first week it hurt so bad and she's a kicker and then when I was allowed to hold her she'd kick me in the area where my gallbladder came out. I didn't get to hold her for 12 days :(
Deanna·
Мама дочки-младенца
I waited 11 days PP before I had sex. It wasn't painful at all.