you know, it sucks to feel under appreciated/ unloved. me and my husband were in the living room and…

you know, it sucks to feel under appreciated/ unloved. me and my husband were in the living room and I was playing and said something about him being loud and he's all like " there's the door" . ok,idk if I'm just being a crybaby...but that really freaking hurt.I mean lately anytime anything happens he doesn't like,he seems to say that. I was like what are u gonna do when u keep saying that and one day I will be gone. he's like I'll just keep doing what I'm doin...then proceed to say I wouldn't have anything because he's bought most of everything we have. to me ,that was just disrespectful. the other day he said he ACTUALLY gets up and goes to work while I barely get out of bed to clean the house( my house is always clean and before I had OUR daughter I worked every day) . he doesn't appreciate the fact that I clean and he always has clean clothes and his daughter is very well taken care of. I know sometimes he feels unappreciated so once or twice a week I let him know he's appreciated. but it seems like he doesn't care that I feel that way too. I said something to him about going 4 or 5 days without kissing me and he was all "am I supposed to be sucking your face every chance I get" ...Idk maybe my harmoned haven't leveled back out yet..but these things really bother me.😢