ladies I have an issue I would like your opinion on. I picked a date for baby girls baptism. already…

ladies I have an issue I would like your opinion on. I picked a date for baby girls baptism. already ordered cake set menu etc. its gonna be extra awesome bc a pastor from liberia will join our pastor. all of a sudden today he tells me that two other babies will be baptized same day and well all go in on the luncheon afterwards. my problem is is I want her to be the only one that day partially bc It stresses me too much to plan party with others. godmother says change day but I really want the Liberian pastor involved and already sent invites. what should I do?